Aight, lets get to it. Women wanting to party when they have kids at home to take care of. Touchy subject? To some it is, but only because they know they are dead wrong in doing so because of how they are doing it. There is nothing wrong with a little partying every now and then, but when you are going out every weekend and coming home wreaking of Hennessey or G Double (Grey Goose), then there is a problem. Your children could be getting neglected. Now notice I said, "could be", not that they were. It depends on the circumstances and how much time you are spending with your kids. Now if you are spending time with them during the day by taking them to the park, zoo, Chuck E. Cheese ,or whatever and then going out to the club at night time, well that's fine. But if all you are doing is letting them sit in front of the TV all day and then you drop them off at your mommas house Saturday night and then don't come and pick them up until Sunday afternoon, then that's a problem.
I get that most of these women didn't get to experience all of the fun of hanging out with friends because they may have had their children at a young age, but that's where the growing up should have come into play. You can't go back and get those years back. Once you become a parent no matter what age, you're stuck. I know there are people saying, "well what about the fathers? Shouldn't they be responsible too?" Let's face the facts...you can't make a man take responsibility for his actions. If they did, there wouldn't be any dead beats in the world. Real men take care of their children, boy's don't. So you can ask why the baby daddy's aren't getting involved and letting their baby mommas have a break, well its because they're right up in the club with them buying the drinks.
Another issue with a lot of women who engage in this type of activity is their priorities tend to get mixed up. Meaning that the "wants" seem to outweigh the "needs". Daycare "needs" to get paid, but they "want" to buy a new outfit for the club. Or they "want" a pair of new shoes, but the light bill "needs" to get paid. Then people wonder why these children grow up with no sense of responsibility. Its because they grew up in a house hold were looking good and material things were more important than showing love and taking care of business.
Also, please stop teaching your kids how to "walk it out" and put a book in front of them.
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Friday, September 18, 2009
Stop taking relationship advice from people who aren't in relationships!
This is a pet peeve of mine that many people tend to follow, especially women. Taking advice from people who don't know how to run their own lives deserves to get a big "mind your effin business" response from the person that it is told to.
Listen, a woman who doesn't have a man, has no life, no real friends, and low self esteem, is always going to tell the one friend who has everything going for her that her man is like all men and that he ain't sh!t and not to trust him. Its the typical thing for a woman to say when she's jealous and she doesn't want to see anyone else happy. Misery loves company and dark hates light.
Too many women listen to these toxic women with venom on their breath because they may either have low self esteem themselves or they feel like their girl is really being a good friend. You wouldn't take financial advice from a bum would you? You would go to Warren Buffett. So why would you go to your broke down girl who admits to hating men anyways because she's been burned a dozen times, mentally and physically.
The ones who are always talking trash are the ones who constantly stay getting used and abused. They're either the "run-in/jump-off/side piece", what ever you want to call it, or they're that chick who is so desperate for attention that they will do anything to get a man. Its pathetic and embarrassing.
Women nowadays need to start using their own minds and stop listening to nonsense and focus on what makes them happy and content. Women have that intuition that they rely on when they know something is not right. Don't let someone else steer you from what you believe to be the right thing in your life. Only you know whats best for you and no one else. Stop listening to what Ms Blabber Mouth is talking about because she always has something to say and none of it is positive.
Listen, a woman who doesn't have a man, has no life, no real friends, and low self esteem, is always going to tell the one friend who has everything going for her that her man is like all men and that he ain't sh!t and not to trust him. Its the typical thing for a woman to say when she's jealous and she doesn't want to see anyone else happy. Misery loves company and dark hates light.
Too many women listen to these toxic women with venom on their breath because they may either have low self esteem themselves or they feel like their girl is really being a good friend. You wouldn't take financial advice from a bum would you? You would go to Warren Buffett. So why would you go to your broke down girl who admits to hating men anyways because she's been burned a dozen times, mentally and physically.
The ones who are always talking trash are the ones who constantly stay getting used and abused. They're either the "run-in/jump-off/side piece", what ever you want to call it, or they're that chick who is so desperate for attention that they will do anything to get a man. Its pathetic and embarrassing.
Women nowadays need to start using their own minds and stop listening to nonsense and focus on what makes them happy and content. Women have that intuition that they rely on when they know something is not right. Don't let someone else steer you from what you believe to be the right thing in your life. Only you know whats best for you and no one else. Stop listening to what Ms Blabber Mouth is talking about because she always has something to say and none of it is positive.
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