The Steve McNair situation happens all of the time

Ok, unless you have been living under a rock or in a cave for this past weekend, you now know about what happened to NFL All star, Steve McNair. Although, it being a tragedy with what happened to this man, it also goes to show that in life, you really don't know who you are dealing with or who a certain person really is. This man was adored by his fans and loved by his family, but on the flip side, he was deceitful and unfaithful. I'm not trying to spit on the man’s grave or sling mud on his legacy; I'm merely using him as an example as to what alot of men in this world do to their wives. Just because he was a celebrity, that doesn't make him a saint.

Now we really don't know all of the hardcore facts, but what we do know is that he obviously had a relationship with this female. With the pictures of the two of them on some sort of outing or vacation together, the Escalade that he purchased that was registered in his and her name, and being pulled over in the Escalade with her being the driver and getting cited for a DUI. He was allowed to go home in a taxi. She went to jail. He posted bail for her later that night. It’s been told to reporters by family and friends that McNair told Saleh Kazemi, his mistress, that he was getting a divorce from his wife, but yet there was no filing of any divorce on record. Not saying that McNair actually told her that, but this is the trick that married men use on women. Believe it or not there are women who actually make it a point to go after married men. Don’t know enough about Ms Kazemi, but according to her family, she would have never gone out with him knowing that he was still with his wife, thus being told that he and his wife’s divorce was finalizing soon, she felt it was ok. Not to mention that they were always out in public together, I can see why this would be believable. The police have ruled it a homicide on Steve McNair, but hesitate to say whether Saleh was the shooter. To me, everyone is a suspect, his wife, her ex boyfriend, and friends that knew about them. I wouldn’t put anything past anyone. They say that his wife had no idea that this was going on. I find that hard to believe. What woman doesn’t know her husband is cheating. My theory is that she knew he was, but was not sure with whom and just didn’t care to know. To me it’s the whole, if I don't see it, then it isn't happening clause. Or the, I wish he would stop cheating. I wish that things could go back to how they used to be. I wish he would stop lying, that lots of women chose to use as a means of not wanting to believe that their man is a jerk. It’s also called the Blind Eye Effect.

I don't really want to harp on the McNair/Kazemi affair. I'm just using that as an example as to what happens when married men get themselves caught up in a situation especially with these young girls. I can almost bet that he may have been trying to call it off after realizing that she may have started to become too clingy or that he was having second thoughts about what he was doing. Both of these things often happen when you enter into a relationship like this. One party becomes very needy and attached while the other is just doing it just to have a good time or temporary relief from a hectic situation at home. Men, you’ve got realize, when you are dogging these women, especially young girls, things can get very volatile. I personally think that young girls are the worst to dick over because they tend to get irrational and think after the fact. They never think about the consequences of their actions before they do things, i.e...slash tires, break windows, burn clothes, stab, or kill. Not to say that older women don't do the same, but I think that younger women work purely off of emotions while older women plot out there revenge more thoroughly. Unfortunately for McNair, he learned too late